Friday, June 10, 2022

A Date in Pune


As the drops of rain touch my body, they embrace it. Like a lover, they move down slowly at first, from my forehead to my cheeks, down to my neck and then inside my clothes. And then faster. Making me all drenched. 

It smells, oh so heavenly. It’s sight, oh so lovely, It’s touch, makes me smile to my core(makes me weak in the knees). My skin glows as if I am in Love. Maybe I am. 

 Pune does this to you. It makes you want to be in love, wholly and deeply. The city itself is a young lover. It rides on two-wheelers like a college romance holding hands or the arms around the waist. It loves like it lasts forever and loves innocently but passionately. This romance is not possible inside the air-conditioned cars. The love happens, when you feel the wind onto your skin, your legs touch the one riding the vehicle, and one of the two, hums a lata Mangeshkar song in their innocent voices. You want to hold tight to them and you want the journey to not end.

 I was driving to Sinhghad today morning. A fairly middle-aged woman, wearing a beautiful green cotton saree, sat with her legs on the same side, sideways on the activa. She had wrapped her arms around her partner who was driving. As the wind blew, her palla did a little Marilyn Monroe moment. She instantly pulled it back and tucked it below her butts with one hand. The other, still, around the lover’s waist. Another speed breaker and the Pallu found an escape. As it became more beautifully breezy, I saw her delayed attempt at tucking the pallu back in. The weather was calling for romance, and she wouldn't want to unwrap her lover.  The third time when the pallu slipped, she didn't bother to tuck it back in. She leaned on her lover's shoulder and held him tighter.  

My first date, at the peak of Sinhghad, was somewhat spectacular. This place is rich in history and speaks volumes about the valour of the marathas who conquered it multiple times from the clutches of mughals. My love for this place stems from the detachment I feel from the hustle bustle of the city. Getting to the top of the sinhgad in itself is a romantic experience. The road itself was a pleasant surprise and the gentle breeze a sweet companion. The narrow lanes and the lush green trees around were humming the tunes of Beethoven. 

Once you reach, you forget everything about your routine. It says, this is where peace and love is. Even the cellular network connection goes away which is perfect for the break we need. I had ridden my two-wheeler, or Gaadi, as they like to call it. As we reached the summit, there was a feeling of being on top of the world.  

The smell of Kanda Bhajji and Pithla Bhakri was in the air and the innocent looking hawkers enticed us to taste these special delicacies of Pune. Food outlets are situated in such a way that we have an awesome view of the valleys, mountains and the clouds. After driving through for half an hour we were craving for a hot cup of tea and some snacks. We chose a table and faced towards the misty clouds. Kaku (as they call aunty in Pune) came and asked for our order and kanda bhajji was the natural choice. The crisp of the bhajji has had me drooling ever since. It is served with a red hot looking onion chutney which you just can’t miss. While we were relishing this beautiful view and feeling, all the jitters of the first date went away and we started talking. Nature helped struck a chord between us and there was not a single dull moment thereafter.

We then started walking towards the infamous wind point. Along the way, we enjoyed the food titbits like kachhi keri(raw mango), cucumber, matka dahi and berries. Holding hands came naturally and the walk became all the more beautiful. At the wind point, it felt like heaven. Strong currents of winds flowing through my open hairs, taking a deep breath of fresh air with my eyes closed, it felt like I didn't want to go away from here. He was also immersed in the moment and couldn’t take his eyes off me. After a while, I curled my hair into a bun and then we sat hanging our legs towards the deep valley. We talked about our interests and likings. It felt like time should stop here. We clicked some selfies and at one point I fantasized about clicking in a titanic pose but then I controlled ;).

As the sun started to set, reluctantly we started to walk back to the parking lot. His company and beautiful surroundings were serving as a perfect cocktail to lose control. In its full glory during the rainy season, Sinhagad fort is no less than switzerland. Yes there I said it, my love for pune is endless.

While we drove back, it started drizzling again. On our way back, we stopped over at khadakwasla dam. It's a famous dam and popular for short picnics near pune for the locals. One cannot miss having a hot bhutta and some bhel overlooking the lake sitting on a mat. This is the water which comes at our home for drinking, this little information was enough to impress him with my puneri gyan :)

As we headed back, we then decided to extend our date by experiencing pune night life together. We headed to the infamous koregaon park area and hopped a few bars. We danced, drank, ate, talked and got lost in the wild night as if there is no tomorrow.

Such is the charm of pune, it offers everyone something to cherish. Pune might not have a proper airport or a robust infrastructure, but it has a heart of gold and accepts everyone with open arms. Women feel safe here, elderly feel respected, youth get a lot of learning and career opportunities (btw pune is also called ‘oxford’ of the east). I love Pune !

We kissed each other goodbye and promised another date amid Pune’s beautiful nature, maybe Purandar fort or Panshet lake :) Looking forward to it :)


Thursday, May 7, 2020

Lockdown diaries - Part 2


If you haven’t read out Part-1, do so by clicking here.


Coming to my personal experience of the lockdown.


Mid march, we were sipping our favourite Irani chai during office tea break
discussing corona of course. However, we did not know that this would be
our last Irani chai and we won’t get this for a long time in near future.
Maybe, we would have savoured it more if we knew.


Work from home started and we were told the next 2 weeks are very crucial.
Then the same thing was told again after completion of 2 weeks. And again
after completion of 2 weeks. We got the message that we are in for a long haul here.


Initially I was elated to work from home. I always wanted to be amidst natural
light and air. I hated the enclosed cubicle spaces with artificial lights. But I didn’t
know God would listen to me and grant me my wish in such a generous way.


Initially I thought lockdown meant a lot of free time and a lot of entertainment.
Also, As an introvert, I was not at all feeling anxious about lockdown.


Initially lots of efforts and time went in consuming food and digital content. 


I realized after a few days that this is not appropriate for overall well being. 
Some adjustments were done and some are still in progress. I am not feeling
guilty however feeling good that I am able to make adjustments and flex my
will power for my own good. 

I also  realized that, with work from home, it is business as usual for me
with added insecurities. Economy started to decline and so were our
company profits. 


I realized that man is a social animal and can’t be forced to be passive for long. 
We started getting invites for video calls, meets, online games, housie game
and what not.
I realized,  one is not allowed to sit idle in today’s connected world. 


While I was given the responsibility for getting the groceries for home,
it was such a strange experience. It felt criminal to step out of home.
I was not looking into the eyes of people outside and was always in a rush
to get the stuff and come back home. At night, there will only be dogs on the
streets but not cars and vehicles at which they can bark


I tried to follow a routine so that I don’t mingle office hours and family hours.
I finally started to learn the story of Mahabharat via tv - two episodes a day. I
started watching the Breaking Bad series as well. 


I was anticipating that there was a lot of free time available now, but as it curtailed,
I was hardly getting any free time. Following was allocation during weekdays


2 hours - Mahabharata 
1 hour - Breaking Bad
8 hours - Office work + Lunch
8.5 hours - Sleep
1 hour exercise + breakfast 
.5 hour dinner 
1 hour - News 
2 hour -Household chores, groceries, whatsapp games, Ludo , relatives and family calls. 

As of today, lockdown is extended for another 15 days till 17th May.
Looks like 2020 will go as a quarantine year. May we all come out of
it physically and mentally healthy to move on with life.

Friday, May 1, 2020

Lockdown Diaries - Part 1


Its 1st may 2020. 

Popularly known as Labour day or Maharashtra day or May Day and observed as holiday
in major parts of India.But this year, 1st May is very different for 1.3 billion Indian citizens.
They are locked down in their homes for over 37 days now courtesy novel coronavirus.

A virus which is manufactured in China and  imported in India from all over the world.
I still remember the first cast detected in india and the reaction over it.
Yes, it will come to india and spread. But little did we know the draconian measures
which will have to be taken up to contain the spread. Little we knew that we would be
locked down in our homes and we will be devoid of our fundamental right to move. 

What followed was no less than a thriller movie. Every day there are new announcements
and rules coming from government agencies. Every day there are new restrictions being
placed from housing societies to national level.


First, cinemas were shut, then swimming pools and parks. Then they shut down the foreign
travel (inbound and outbound), then railways and roadways. 


Everything came to standstill. Janta curfew was initiated by the PM to give a trailer of what to
expect next. 


21 days lockdown followed by 19 days lockdown. 


During the lockdown, a lot of thoughts and realizations surfaced. Interesting things started to happen
all around. Interesting times ! As my mom said, in her life span of 70 years she hasn’t witnessed such
a scenario. Her most innocent and curious question was - How the hell they can put locks on
TEMPLES? Her daily routine of 4 hours got disturbed.

No Maids were allowed to come home. This was one of the major shockers for all the households.
It followed the usual chain starting from denial to negotiation to acceptance and finally making peace
with it. 

The restrictions were such an equalizer,  from rich to poor, all were now seen at the same level.
The boundary of the middle and upper class seems to fade out. There was no more FOMO
(fear of missing out), because there was no one outside to make you feel so.


Introverts were elated with the idea of lockdown, as that meant no social gatherings and awkward
conversations. No formal get together and boredom which entailed. 


No newspapers allowed to be delivered, and learned to live with epaper.
No morning walks or evening walks. No more sitting at the LMD square and observing people
going around.


There were so many stories of people getting stuck. My niece got stuck in hyderabad.
My bachelor colleagues stuck in Pune with no tiffin service and cooks available.
Friends got stuck in their sasural and mayka. Labourers got stuck and couldn’t move to their home
town.


People started to embrace face masks as an essential clothing item and maintained 1 hand distance
with others. No handshakes.  


Teachers started to take online classes on video conferencing apps. Netflix, Prime, hotstar and
several OTT subscriptions increased. 


Sensex and Nifty tanked 25% within 2 weeks.


Changes happening all around and here I was trying to make sense of it all.
I will cover my personal journey amid lockdown in the next part. Stay tuned. 

Saturday, June 8, 2019

The Best Season


Growing up, I had always this confusion in my mind that which among the 4 seasons in india is the best one. In India, there are typically 4 seasons in an year viz. Winters, Summers, Spring and Rainy.  It was really difficult for me to choose between these 4 as every season has its pluses and minuses.

However in recent times, with close observation of my seasonal moods and activities each season offers, I am getting inclined towards a specific season to be considered as personal best. It is

                                                               Summer Season 

While I am not going to list down all the season's positives and negatives, however I am going to definitely pen down all the positives of the summer season.

So here we go
  • Plenty of Sunshine: Oh, I love sunshine. It makes me feel alive and positive. Summer season offers the longest days of the year and its so good to see light till late 7 in evening. 
  • Season of Mangoes: This is the season, which offers the best fruit of all. King of fruit - Mangoes. With me being resident of Maharashtra, Alphonsos from Ratnagiri and Devgarh just adds to the sensual pleasure of tongue
  • Fashion Fiesta : This is the season where girls feel free to experiment with the clothings. Every inch they cut down from any part of the cloth, it gives birth to a entirely new fashion style. Shorts, skirts, tops, jeans are of varying sizes and all this can be experimented in summers without the fear of getting cold. Fashion for women, delight for men ;)
  • Nani Ghar(grand mother) Masti : In India, there is a tradition for married women to go their mothers' place during summer season. This is very old tradition that continues to be followed today. Its a fun filled 1 month which includes the cousin group masti, video games, movies, picnics, card games, late night outs and many more. Though it can give headache to maternal uncles but the fun is worth the ache :)
  • Juices and Icecreams: This is the season where all juices taste doubly delicious. Be it sugarcane, nariyal paani, watermelon - they all are just amazingly refreshing. Same is the case with ice creams. During summers only, you can see full family outing on Ice cream parlors. Also one cannot forget the slurping barf ka laddoo 
  • IPL season: Off late, come Month of May and it marks IPL season. Its the youth's favourite league in India and there is so much buzz around this. Prime time is booked for 1 and half month and excitement is at its pinnacle
  • Diving in a pool : In summers, only 2 things give soothing relief from the scorching heat : Swimming pools and ACs. Both are enjoyed the most in this season. Waterparks are crowded with so many families enjoying water and rides in unison. ACs just helps to forget the heat of the season and make our homes like Kashmir valley.
  • Holidays : For schools and colleges, summers means holiday time with no stress of studies, homework or project. 
  • Husband's Harmony : Come summer and husbands happily book their wife's tickets to their home town. This is the time they get to party with their friend without guilt and loiter around the home without complaints. They live the time of their year during this short break. 
There are many more to highlight, however I thing I have made my point. So its now official - Summers are the best atleast for me. There are surely some cons like its difficult to travel in summers, but then there is nothing perfect in this world. Let me know in comments your experiences with summer season. 

Sunday, August 27, 2017

5 Most Stupid Questions


Starting from number 5:-

5.  "Kitna package hai beta" translated in english as "How much do you earn" ?

Best answer to this question is that, I earn enough to manage two meals a day for me and my family. This question can be asked by variety of people, it can be a totally strange fellow train traveler or can be your close relative. You can use above answer to strangers but you are mostly in fix when asked by an elderly close relative. Problem is not that you are ashamed to share but you know that post sharing , you will be judged and also that this information will be shared without consent to the entire society.


4. "Onsite kab jaa rahe ho" translated in english as "When are you going out of india on a trip sponsored by your company" ?

If you are working for an IT company, it is mandatory for you to go out of India.People think that companies are there for serving this very purpose only. If you have still not crossed indian boundaries, you are doing something wrong in your career and here you are , you got your instant appraisal rating from a relative.

3. "Shaadi kab kar rahe ho" translated in english as "When are you getting married" ?

Now this is most irritating question faced by teenagers, As soon as person crosses legal age of marriage eligibility, no matter what the situation of person, he/she will be constantly reminded that marriage is the next goal in life. Imagine a guy living in a small room shared with 2 other males , earning 20K a month and he gets into the thinking mode, is this something which I can afford now?

2. "Ghar kab le rahe ho" translated in english as "When are you buying a house"?

As soon as you start earning for few years, you will start facing this question. This is the one of the critical questions in the arranged marriage interviews. Sometimes, this is a deciding factor in your proposal of the marriage. It might be the case that the person asking the question has owned a house in his sixties, but still expects you to buy in your twenties.


1. "Khush khabri kab suna rahe ho"  translated in english as  When are you giving birth to a child" ?

Now this tops the list after you have actually answered all above questions in real life.
What kind of a stupid question is this. How can one possibly know the answer to this question.
If a couple is not trying to conceive, they don't know when will they start trying and when will they be able to share good news..
If a couple is indeed trying to conceive, they cannot precisely answer this question because of all the complicated nature of the process.
Basically this question is not meant to be answered, it is meant to taunt you. For newly weds it is intended to trigger a topic of discussion among the couple and for rest, it is intended to get the details of underlying plan.

Monday, June 26, 2017

Travel Tips


                  I love to travel. Since my childhood, I used to count the number of cities and states I have been to. Earlier the count was restricted to the grandma's place and few religious places. It got increased when I attended a outstation school picnic. I wanted to grow this count as my life progressed. Fortunately, during my professional life which started 10 years ago, I got ample opportunities to travel in and out of the country.
                Travel generates lot of emotions and one gets overwhelmed with new and varied experiences. We realize that there are so many different kinds of people, culture, establishments, processes, rules and colors to explore in this world.  As said by one genius :

“Travel makes one modest. You see what a tiny place you occupy in the world.” 

Based on my travelling experiences so far, below are some of my travel tips which I follow as rules of thumb to make my journey a satisfying one.


  • Travel light
    • We do not want to get stressed by always having to take care of huge luggage and expensive stuff inside it. Our luggage should enable us to move fast and free.
  • While in Rome do as Romans do 
    • Old phrase but very true. Eat the specialties of the region you are visiting. When in indore, eat poha breakfast, in pune eat misal pav ,in mumbai eat wadapav and in Italy have Pasta and pizza. Also, try to come out of the shackles and wear the clothes that match the culture. Like,do not shy to roam in shorts in the streets of goa. 
  • Try to walk and roam around in public transport
    • One of the enriching experiences of travelling is getting to know people of that place. This can be experienced only when you go out there on the streets. Walk to the nearest restaurant. Take local bus and observe people aboard it. Talk to people. Engage in discussions. You will be amazed to converse with some of the locals and you will come back knowing more about the place.
  •  Enjoy Night Life
    • Go to most happening place of the city and enjoy the hustle bustle of the night. Enjoy the way night embraces the people. Go club hopping, make some friends over the bar counter. As Paulo Coelho, noted author once said,  A city is like a capricious woman she takes time to be seduced and to reveal herself completely.
  • Read about the place
    • Every place has its history and it is its glorious past which makes the place great. Read about the place to know about it and try to catch the interesting facts about the same.
  • Do not travel for the sake of checklist
    • Do not make a tight schedule. Give yourself enough time to relax and enjoy. Wherever you go, give enough time to enjoy the place and do not make itinerary which compels you to always think about next destination. 
  • Spend as little time in hotel room as possible
    • If you want to spend time in inside four walls, its better to do at your home. Why to spend and come to a distant place to stay back at room.
  • Avoid going to malls
    • Malls are same everywhere. Similarly avoid watching movie in a plex. You can do that in your home town as well. 
  • Keep your hotel address and emergency contact handy
    • You always want to come back safe. Keep your hotel address handy and also contact numbers to avoid getting lost. Be alert enough to not get yourslef in trouble.
  • First Enjoy and then click
    • Don't start on the clicking spree. Roam around , see through  your naked eyes , absorb the moment and then take few snaps just for the memory purposes. Do not ruin the moment of pleasures by stressing out to take pics for social media. I will recommend to cutoff from social media to avoid going in spiral shell called internet. 
P.S. Check out my travel reviews below
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Sunday, October 30, 2016

What Diwali means to you ?

                                    Diwali is a festival of lights. It is celebrated across India with much enthusiasm and excitement. As I celebrate diwali this year, I see a change in me. There is a lot of difference in the the way I used to celebrate diwali in my childhood and the excitement of diwali during those days. I have realized that Diwali means differently to each individual and at different stages of life.

So what does diwali actually means to people around us .. I tried to capture few of the observations around in the process and compiled below meaning of diwali ...


  1. To small kids (~3 years), its a mix reaction. They start hearing loud noises of tikli and bombs. Most of them are generally scared to go out. However, some brave children starts liking the noise and lights around. They start lighting fuljhadi and enjoying chaklis and anaars. 
  2. To children (3-16 years), diwali becomes the most favorite of the festivals. They get 5 days of vacations. Day time is spent playing and night time bursting crackers. Its the most joyful time of the year.
  3. To working professionals living away from native place, it is the time of the year to apply for full week leave and go to home town. 
  4. To businesses, it is the opportunity to monetize the maximum. They offer discounts and offers to attract people. Shops are decorated beautifully to lure goddess laxmi.
  5. To lower middle class people, it is the time of year to get bonuses.
  6. To housewives, it is time of year to clean the house and make delicious snacks. And not to mention it is the chance to get ready in beautiful traditional attires.
  7. To some families, it is the time of year to travel and go on vacation.
  8. To those who love shopping, this is the time of the year when shopping fever is at pick. They become berserk and spoilt for choice. The market hustle bustle makes them crazy and more than the actual stuff, they like the entire process of shopping. 
Every individual in india has a special place for diwali in their hearts and above list will be unending.. 
So what proampted me to write this blog ? It is a strange feeling which forced to me look around and observe. 

As years pass on, my excitement level is dipping. I see fervour around and think, why there are no emotions being stirred inside me. Why am I not looking forward to this festival of of lights? What has changed in me ? 

Some of it might be attributed to growing up, some might be the realization of futility of all the activities. I am yet to figure out the exact answer to it.

For now, To me Diwali means the time to relax and enjoy with family to spend time at home, prepare food and eat together.. Its the time to cleanse the inner and the outer world.


Last thought...
During childhood I always wanted to earn so that I will be able to buy and burst as many crackers as I want and now when I am earning, all the zeal has faded away. This is the irony of life.

Happy Diwali.